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How to tell that you answered your own prayer request for a man and that he is not serious and you should start praying over again this time for a man from God and not Telemundo.

The toilet is the most important room of the house. Don’t rush to watch his big screen Tv (which probably he bought on credit and is still paying) ,Focus on the toilet. When you walk into the toilet and you find newspaper instead of a tissue, my sister chineke abeg you r in trouble.
2) His Bedroom
Traces of boxers thrown on the ground, ka t-shirt pa mbali one shoe there the other pa door entrance all those denote disorganization in a man’s mind! Also dirty sheets and blankets and if he uses chitenje or bed sheet to cover the window instead of a curtain leave the fool alone!
3) Kitchen
Honestly some dudes amaze me! He last cooked eggs three days ago but you find egg shells all over? Why? the pot still has nsima in it which is even turning green with fungai and the cooking stick is hard like it’s about to be thrown. Again check his fridge if you just find a half cabbage and water my sister suffering and hardships await you. Avoid guys with tuma two plate cookers which have been over repaired and is insulated with shoprite yellow plastics..that you are even afraid to cook for him .
4) personal hygiene
Like it or not you will sleep with him when married you will kiss him and make love to him. Pick the best. Avoid Guys who don’t brush smell those that keep lots of moustache and hair under the armpits, you wana be as comfortable with him as possible! Introduce him to roll on and deodorant. Sure guys these things are cheap, Avoid guys who sniff boxers to see if it can be worn again. It’s not just a matter of having a handsome face or ama six pack like a crankshaft, take care of your home yourselves and your financial and social lives.
To conclude ladies avoid men who try to be too nice and sweet. Often Times the abusers are the seemly sweet guys. Also avoid men who suffer from leprosy, those with short hands, i know he isn’t your father but you deserve to be taken Care and spoiled alittle. I Almost forgot, avoid men with tempers we don’t want to watch you pa MBC TV wife killed from heavy blows from drunken hubby!!!’
‪#‎Ndili‬ mu sceptic tank)#


[Book]The Parliament of Poets: An Epic Poem

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Quantum Physics returns the spiritual dimension to humanity.
I respect Western religions, as I do all of the religious and wisdom traditions. I have spent much of my life studying not only the Christian New and Old Testaments but also the Hindu Upanishads, some of the Buddhist classics, Taoism, Confucianism, and other scriptures, since as early as my last year or two in high school in a class in world religions.
Not long after that I became aware for the first time of Quantum Mechanics and have read about it ever since, on and off. I’m now over sixty years old. So it is something that I’ve mulled over repeatedly for all of my adult life. Many serious, thoughtful people, in many walks of life, as well as quantum scientists and researchers since the 1920s and ’30s, have been saying that the implications of what has long been now the emerging, new if not dominant, scientific worldview has tremendous resonance for the world. Having read some very challenging books, such as Thomas Kuhn’s The Structure of Scientific Revolutions, I believe Quantum Physics, on the basis of science, opens the door for a whole new interpretation of life beyond the nihilism of modernity, a vision that resonates richly with the profound dimensions of the mystic traditions of Western Christianity as well as all the great religions.
In my view, the nihilism of Nietzsche, Samuel Beckett, and other writers and thinkers like them, the entire modern and postmodern periods, have long demonstrated its intellectual and spiritual bankruptcy. Quantum Physics returns the spiritual dimension to humanity in a profoundly new way that reinterprets all of the traditional religions and opens the way forward to a new era.
My epic poem, The Parliament of Poets, is all about grappling with the vision implicit in Quantum Physics in imaginative, literary, metaphorical, and metaphysical terms. I invite you to Journey to the Moon…

The Parliament of Poets: An Epic Poem
The Parliament of Poets: An Epic Poem


5 Ways to Deal with a Rude Walmart Cashier

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It’s happened to all of us. You are in line, minding your own business, ready to check out and BAM! Out of nowhere you are hit with a rude cashier at Walmart. That cashier that thinks that using a coupon means you are stealing from the company. That cashier that thinks price matches come directly out of their paycheck. That cashier that has spent far too long on their feet and just can’t deal with another customer.
What do you do? We know what you WANT to do. Just drop the gloves and give that cashier a piece of your mind! I know that feeling but I also know it’s counter-productive. Fortunately, because of this blog I have become an expert in dealing with rude cashiers. Many times I have had readers contact me with stories about something that happened and I have felt obligated to step in and try to get it resolved. Here’s a helpful list of suggestions so you can handle the situation yourself.

1. Make sure it isn’t you.
I know, nothing justifies a rude cashier. They are being paid to be helpful and courteous and you aren’t but face facts, if you are rude, you are probably going to get rudeness in return. Smile. Be friendly. Remember that if you are using coupons, you represent all couponers. I have heard so many horror stories from the other side, stories of awful couponers, that it makes sense that they would not want to deal with us. Make sure you know what you are doing before you get in line.
2. Call the immediate supervisor
Usually there is a CSM floating around that can solve most issues and most of them want to hear if an associate was rude to you. I have had several instances where problems with a cashier were solved by a CSM, sometimes they will even move me over to an empty cash lane if I have a big order and check me out themselves and deal with the cashier after I leave.
3. Call the store manager
Go to the Walmart website, find your store and call the store manager during normal business hours. Tell them exactly what happened and who was involved. Believe me, they WANT to know. If they have a rude associate, they want to be able to deal with it as quickly as possible. No store manager wants to his employees offending customers and he/she not knowing about it.
4. Call the District Manager
There is no easy way to figure out who they DM is for your district except to ask at the store level for his or her phone number. If you have burned every bridge at your Walmart and don’t want to talk to them, call the next closest Walmart.
5. Call Corporate
Walmart’s customer service number is 800-WALMART or you can email them here. Remember to be concise and precise and know the name of your cashier. It’s never taken me more than a few hours to get a response.
That should do it. I’ve never had a situation that wasn’t resolved as long as I followed the steps. It is also important to say that you should ALWAYS follow these steps with EVERY rude Walmart Associate. That employee needs to know that there are consequences for rudeness and either shape up or ship out.
One other thing that should be talked about is if you have an amazing experience with a Walmart cashier, follow the same steps above to let people know. Trust me, if you spend any amount of time at a Walmart, you want the good cashiers rewarded so they stick around and the bad cashiers weeded out.


Dead Batteries are No Longer a Problem

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12316226_977037889022415_3834542533293086603_nPossibly you are at the marina or boarding a boat, docked in the channel behind your home. You and your amigos move on board, enthusiastic to go, and hit the key. Not anything ensues. On the other hand you hear that granulating commotion radiated by a starter engine sadly straining to turn the motor over. Dead battery! Didn’t someone check it the previous evening? I thought you were going to!

One Gigantic Bother

Salt water angling vessels are infamous for having some kind of electrical ditch that can step by step debilitate or execute even the most grounded 12-volt marine battery and once your battery is too low to pull the motor, your choices contract significantly.

In the event that you have an on-board generator, you could fire it up to charge the dead battery and after that activate the engine. It might likewise be conceivable to utilize jumper cables to unite the motor to the generator battery, accepting the generator itself is firm.

In the days of yore, you pulled off the cowling and evacuated the coiled-up starter rope the maker provided, and then endeavored to pull-start the motor. Nowadays, the new era of PC controlled outboards can’t be pull-started, and the PCs themselves request a genuinely abnormal state of voltage to begin the motor.

In case you’re fortunate, the motor starts and you breathe a sigh of relief. Anyhow, with the measure of electrical interests we tend to put on our boats nowadays, you might get trapped.

Keys to a Safe Start

The Secure Start Marine Jump Starter from Bolder Technologies of Golden, Colorado, gives enough amperage to kick off a motor in circumstances when the pontoon’s battery just won’t carry out the employment.

1. This Starter is the first emergency jump starter that is really easy to use, due to its progressed Thin Metal Film (TMF) battery innovation. Secure Start is little and sufficiently light for anybody to handle. Also, Secure Start is constantly prepared to work and the unit gives a distinct beep when it is recharged.

2. Secure Start gives 900 peak amps of power, which ought to be sufficient to start most nautical motors. It arrives in an erosion verification blue case and even incorporates a halogen flashlight. The unit is absolutely independent and weighs just 4.8 pounds.

3. Dissimilar to traditional batteries, TMF batteries have a great degree slim lead foil, twisted firmly to accomplish the extreme measure of surface zone in the littlest volume. More surface zone implies more power, and remarkable cast-on end connectors exchange the power more productively all through the battery.

4. TMF batteries are manufactured like a capacitor, which creates a low interior resistance that significantly diminishes voltage drop amid cranking. The more voltage you have accessible amid cranking, the speedier the motor will turn, and the more probable it is to activate. These batteries require no voltage regulation on account of their characteristic voltage strength.

5. Secure Start accompanies 36-inch jumper cables, and the TMF batteries hold their energy for almost a year. Likewise, the TMF batteries don’t experience the ill effects of the memory impact that can lead nickel-cadmium batteries to an early grave. TMF batteries supply the same measure of power as much bigger ordinary rechargeable batteries, so they offer significant size and weight savings.

Knowledge of Power

The batteries recharge quickly and Secure Start’s charge-level marker lets you know how charged they are initially. What’s more, an audible alarm goes off when voltage falls too low. The best part is that the TMF cells are made utilizing economical, promptly accessible crude materials, so they are likewise entirely savvy.

Remember that Secure Start won’t help on the off chance that you have an issue with the motor itself. It supplies beginning power just quickly, so in the event that you’ve worn your battery out by attempting to start your motor, Secure Start won’t help. As it’s simply the ticket for starting a solid motor whose just issue is a feeble battery.


Love you all. For real,

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If you know me well, you know that I like to journal at the bar with headphones on and that I don’t like sharing what I write. But tonight I wrote some things that should probably be shared, things that I wouldn’t have the time or guts to share in person. So, here goes, Facebook. A portion of tonight’s writing:
I know I’ve written it countless times, but I’m so incredibly grateful for the job that I have and the friends I’ve made through it, whom I consider family at this point. I don’t know if it’s possible for me to express in words how happy and fulfilled I am to have met the people I have through Boxer Ramen. It’s been a life saver, really. I wish there was a way for me to tell them all this without sounding cheesy, but for now my proof is in my work ethic. I would do anything to sustain the happiness the team gives me for the rest of my life. Who needs anything else when you can work hard with your comrades and have fun doing it?
…I am beyond thankful to have immediate family that believes in me and supports me, even through my vices that they know well of. My mother is my personal hero, specifically – a very intelligent, aspiring and independent woman. I hope to be equally driven and beautiful as my mama when I grow up.
My brother and sister blow my mind with their talent, musically and artistically, overall. I try to refrain from jealousy, but let’s be honest – these two are and always have been prodigies since the womb. Love.
My stepfather has been more than supportive, and I will forever be in debt to him. Aside from feeling in debt though, I feel I’ve made a true friend since I met him when I was four years old. We share common interests, notably in cooking and wine. He watched me grow up, tolerated my stupid high school goth phase, and still likes to talk to me after all that, so we should be good friends for life.
My roommates are also the loves of my life. Regrettably, I don’t see them a whole lot due to crazy work schedules, but they came to my rescue when I was last-minute pushed out of my last place, in the midst of marital disaster and an overall sense of loss. When I do see them I always have “thank you” in the back of my mind, but never know how to say it without wanting to cry of happiness. I’m so lucky to continue to live in the neighborhood I grew up in, amongst people that I value and love.
Also, shout out to my cat Oscar. She’s been with me through thick and thin. Always supportive, probably just for the food, but it’s worth it.